Do you ever wonder if you’re attractive to the opposite sex? If people find you sexy and desirable? Are you looking for signs people find you interesting or attractive?

Chances are, if you’re a woman, you’ve wondered at some point whether or not you’re alluring to the opposite sex. Maybe you’ve been wondering lately if someone’s been checking you out, or perhaps you’re just curious about what signs signify that someone is interested in you.

Regardless of your reasons for wondering, it’s helpful to know the telltale signs. So read on for a list of behaviors and traits that typically indicate someone is attracted to you!

This is a contributed post.

1. People are drawn to you

Men and women will have different opinions regarding what makes an individual attractive. However, great looks are a common denominator. And when most people, including your close friends, are drawn to you or get the feeling of knowing you better, that is a sign that you are attractive.

Here are little signs to watch out for:

  • Guys periodically attempt to start conversations with you at parties.
  • Most people stop you to ask questions when you are just walking by.
  • People try to know you better at gatherings.

When you think a guy is physically attracted to you and you are also drawn to him, then that is an excellent sign of chemistry. Know him better because he might be great for you.

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2. Men pout whenever they see you

When you notice men pouting whenever they see you, or perhaps their jaw drops and make an “ooh sound,” – it is a clear indication that you are an attractive woman. Body language never lies.

Men are attracted to you when they glance at you as you enter the room, then they suddenly look away, but their lips are pursed. This is indeed a telltale sign that they find you attractive.

3. Men protect you

Most men step up to the plate for a woman they find attractive. And among the common ways a man will protect attractive friends who they want to be with include:

  • He tries to go with them if they go to dangerous and shady places.
  • He lends a hand whenever they feel they need help.
  • He defends them when their female friends or any person talks badly about them.

When you notice someone protecting you like this, it is because you have triggered his hero instinct – the biological urge to protect the person you want to be with.

4. People like your smile

Compliments like “I love/like the way you smile” and “You have a contagious smile” mean two things:

  • The guy wants small talk.
  • The guy is flirting with you.

So when you experience this, say “thanks.” And observe if he portrays other signs in this guide.

Take note, though, that men won’t compliment you in some cases because it is obvious, it is not the right time, or they are too shy to tell you. This is one of the essential sex differences in humans that you should be aware of. So if you like the guy, it might be a great idea to get out of the friend zone by asking him out and observing how he will react.

5. You had an active dating life

If you have romantic partners or regularly dated men before, then most probably, your opposite-sex friends are attracted to you.

But the power of physical attractiveness can also make you miserable, wherein you can go many years without a date. Men may treat you as just friends, but deep inside, they have sexual feelings for you. The key is to observe how they behave around you

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6. Men act weird around you

If a male acts awkward around you, this can mean he finds you attractive. And when it is the usual reaction you get, most probably you are a hottie.

But why do men feel and act awkward around attractive women? They naturally want to be on their best behavior when they are around pretty girls, but this often results in weirdness.

So if you notice a lot of guys acting uncomfortable around you, then this means you’re attractive. You may also see them get rattled as you walk past them or enter the room.

7. Men mirror your behavior

If men are attracted to you, they often subconsciously adopt some of your behaviors and mannerisms. To feel more aligned or create a strong bond with you, they may use similar words and phrases you do, hold their cups as you do, or mimic your stance.

Though most people believe that opposites attract, men often like those they have more in common as this will help them build stronger personal relationships together.

8. Flirty physical contact

Physical touch is a love language. When you notice men finding opportunities to touch you as you engage with each other, that is a sign of attraction – not merely sexual desire.

These touches can happen like accidents – for example, men may brush up against you or try to bump into yours as you reach for an object. All gestures may seem innocent actions, but it is a show of interest when you notice it is becoming frequent.

Men and women often have individual differences when it comes to flirting. Men might tuck the hair of the opposite gender behind their ear or place their hands on their elbow. On the contrary, women portray softer touches, such as lightly touching the arm of the man.

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So are you attractive? Over to You

If you’re looking for a surefire way to know whether someone is attracted to you, keep an eye out for these signs. They may be subtle and hard to detect, but if they do happen, then it’s safe to say that person has the hots for you!

QUESTION: How do you find someone attractive? How do you show someone that they are attractive?



  1. Debra Roberts

    February 25, 2022 at 3:19 PM

    I’ve always been naive about this. My husband is always pointing out people looking, men deep staring, and that all my male friends would hook up in a hot second of I allowed it. All this time I thought they were truly being friends but he has assured me time and again how men think and it’s rarely platonic!!!

  2. Ntensibe Edgar

    February 25, 2022 at 9:19 AM

    “Men Pout Whenever They see you”. This is a completely new one to my ears. Thanks for elaborating on it.

  3. Jasmine Martin

    February 25, 2022 at 6:57 AM

    I feel like a lot of people would find this helpful. Thank you so much for writing this.

  4. Jenjen Balatico

    February 25, 2022 at 4:42 AM

    “Men Pout Whenever They see you” – that’s interesting!

  5. Christian Foremost

    February 24, 2022 at 10:58 PM

    Sorry, i ate this article up way too quickly. Not sure if this work for gay men as well, but let’s see. It’s kinda my manta these days: “ I don’t chase. I attract.” And i gotta be freaking attractive.

  6. Neely Moldovan

    February 24, 2022 at 6:42 PM

    such a fun and positive post! I love being a positive person so hopefully people find me interesting!

  7. Chrissy

    February 24, 2022 at 1:31 PM

    These signs are true in different cases, As for me, it feels awesome to feel attractive even if I am already married. At least my husband won’t try to fins someone else LOL! Yet interesting is good especially at work as long as they would give good influence to you with career!

  8. Life Mag Health

    February 24, 2022 at 11:24 AM

    These are really nice tips to know, I will be more keen now. Thanks for sharing!

  9. Fransic Verso

    February 24, 2022 at 7:16 AM

    I agree, look take big role in whether you like a person or not. And not saying the way how his/her body looks but the dress, take care of his body and so on. Things we can take care of

  10. April

    February 23, 2022 at 5:40 PM

    So much great information! It’s been so long since I’ve been single I haven’t really thought about any of these things lately.

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